Hi all
I am looking for any advice as to how to deal with the above
My Mum has always been a heavy drinker - as teenager I would recall my parents having a sherry after work, wine with dinner then a drink or two afterwards. Although my Dad cut back later on in life my Mum kept on going.
Roll on 30 odd years and the drinking is still going - I think (but of course don't know) that she has days of drinking nothing, days of just "normal levels" (we saw her several times over xmas and she just had a glass or two of wine with soda) and (at a guess once or twice a week) she binges heavily having a couple of bottles of wine or 2/3 of a bottle of whiskey. At this time she is often alone and / or swigging in private. There seems to be no trigger apart from possibly being alone in the house, although its not always the case
What I am trying to say is that most of the time she is fine and normal but obviously has an alcohol dependence issue. I guess she is an alcoholic just not a "typical" one- although I imagine there is no such thing. It makes it an odd situation as its obviously a background issue but a major one (like occasional binge gambling, smoking or drugs I guess)
She is in denial, although she will cut back a while when challenged.
She is 72 if that is any use
Everything I have read or heard is that she has to want to stop / change herself but wondered if anyone had any advice about this "type" of situation - would cutting back help / be successful? Is she likely to get worse?
Any advice or experience appreciated x
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sleepwouldbenice · 07/01/2015 23:08
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