So a week ago I ended the abusive and controlling relationship I have been in on/ off for nearly 4 years. I refused to listen to him and be controlled by him and went to a party. I'm nearly 40 FFS. I come back home to find without my consent he had taken my house keys and thrown over my Xmas decorations, read my emails Etc ( from previous online dating) and caused some damage. Haven't heard a word since. I've changed the locks. However as he works away all week tonight he could turn up. I'm being v strong but I think only those who have been in controlling and a dive relationships with know how hard it is not to engage and give in! I need strength
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Help me be strong. Controlling relationship
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Applecrumbling · 19/12/2014 11:36
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