This is my first post but I have been reading the threads on here for 4 years. I need to get some perspective on this from someone who is not part of my dysfunctional family.
About six weeks ago my brother was sent a bank statement to my house. I was suspicious and angry. He has never lived here and there is no reason for the bank to think he does. When I asked him about it he said that he had no idea how it happened and he would sort it. He was off hand and said I could always return it to sender. I have got a lot on at the moment and I let it lie.
Then another statement arrived. Today a medical card arrived. I, by text, asked him to stop using my address fraudulently. I said that I felt he was taking advantage of me. The only possible explanation I can see is that he is committing some sort of credit fraud invovling my address.
He denies this says that I obviuosly don't want him in my life if I can think that of him so he won't be seeing me again. I don't have contact with either of my parents due to an abusive childhood. I don't want to lose my brother but can't see any other explanation and he isn't offering one. Was I too quick to judge?
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hahahaha · 15/12/2014 15:53
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