This isn't really a relationship issue but since my original thread was here, I thought I'd use this board to vent a little, I hope no one minds.
It's possible some of you might remember I posted back in January about my daughter being attacked - I was trying to work out what to do and irrationally upset about a jumper I got excellent advice and we went to the police.
So now it's 11 months later and exactly nothing has happened. The case is being bounced back and forth by the CPS, we barely get updates and no sign of a date for a decision.
I feel so upset and annoyed for DD. She's doing well but having this hanging over her without even the promise of him being charged is just draining. Any plans for holidays etc. risk being cancelled if we do eventually get a court date, she's doing GCSEs at the moment and while I really want the twat to go to court I'm worried about the impact that will have on her studies.
The final straw is that CPS have requested social services records for DD (there's nothing much in there, a couple of visits when she was little and I was very ill but no ongoing involvement at any point) before they'll decided if they go ahead. It's just pissed me off so much. Like they're judging her rather than looking at what actually happened. I don't even know what they'd be looking for - if we had had SS involved would they be less likely to charge him? what difference does it actually bloody make?
I know it's a complex process getting someone to court but still, I'm so frustrated by it all.
I'm not really looking for any responses (unless someone owns a magic wand?) I just needed to share my annoyance. There aren't really many people I can talk to about it in real life as DD wanted it kept private until we know what's happening.
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Mandatorymongoose · 03/12/2014 13:11
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