I don't get what he means

[giinny91]

Me: I love you and I just want to make things work better. If I stop caring and just let everything slide then we'll be ok right? ^^

Him: Doesn't seem to matter anyways.

[Quitelikely]

Any more info? You're asking a lot only providing one sentence!

[AttilaTheMeerkat]

Regardless of the meaning behind his words, he does not seem at all bothered anyway. Why flog what is perhaps a dead horse here?.

I would also read up on co-dependency within a relationship also.

[however]

I'm not actually sure what either of you means.

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

I'd take it on face value. 'I'll do what it takes' vs 'I don't care' usually means it's over

[jakesmith]

Very cryptic post really

[Drumdrum60]

I don't understand your message. What are you letting slide? Doesn't sound positive. Not sure he understood either so he sent a petulant reply.

[calzone]

I don't get what either of you mean.

You are going to let everything slide and it doesn't matter to him anyway.

Walk away.

[Finola1step]

Difficult to tell from so little detail. But from what you have provided, he's really not that bothered.

[BirdhouseInYourSoul]

He seems to be saying that what ever you do won't matter because it's over.

You shouldn't have to left things slide to make it work if they are important to you though. Don't lower your standards to fit his.

[Blu]

If you don't know what he means, ask him.

And if this is by text, talk.

But really listen: do not try and get him to say what you want him to say , or find your own interpretation in what he says. Express your own feelings and then listen to his.

[Tobyjugg]

There's not a lot to go on but it sounds to me like he's had enough of (a) the conversation, (b) trying to make the relationship work and (c) you (sorry to be brutal).

Time for you to move on, I think.

[giinny91]

So this is basically what happened.
We loved each other a lot but then things started to happen. First he told me why I never tell him things. When I started to show him my emotions, he got annoyed and tired. Then I stopped, i just held everythingg inside and sometimes post sad songs on facebook. Then again he didn't like it. So I don't really know what to do. That's why I told I him maybe if I stop caring too much then things will get better. I think I'll just let him go. I'm tired of his confusing personalities and he also got commitment issues based on what I've seen.

[giinny91]

before that he said this:

Don't worry Ginny. I've just been more busy than usual because it's midterm season right now for me so I'm an even worse boyfriend than you're probablly used to, and I apologize. Everything just feels awkward to me. thats all. I'm sorry. So don't feel like that.

I don't know why he feels awkward. what is so awkward between me and him...? i don't understand.

[giinny91]

and I agree with you guys. he doesn't seem to bother. time to move on I guess.

[giinny91]

I really tried. I did tell him: hey I feel like this, like that. I need you to...but he just response in short replies and doesn't seem to care at all.
It is painful but I need to remember to breath for myself too right. I bought him couple keychains, bought him cute stuffs to make him happy. I was always there when he was tired. I don't know what else could I have done. I'm walking away!

[makeitabetterplace]

Honestly, he sounds like he's not that into the relationship and you sound like you're trying to force him into caring. You're one step off dumping him to see if he reacts. I'd give this one up.

[AnnieLobeseder]

Sorry, but it sounds like you're flogging a dead horse. And there's no point in trying to force a relationship with someone who doesn't want one. It gives them free reign to walk all over you while you take their crap in a pointless effort to make them love you. It's not healthy for anyone, and a relationship can't work without mutual love and respect.

Breaking up and moving on is hard, but you need to do it. Your life will be infinitely better for it, I promise.

[JustSpeakSense]

Couples key chains?

[Finola1step]

It all does sound like a lot if hard work for very little return.

Might be best to walk away from this one and spend a bit of time by yourself.

[giinny91]

Yes they look like this :D
i.ebayimg.com/00/s/MTYwMFgxMjAw/z/iOUAAOxyyq5TMOmU/$_57.JPG

Ok guys, i'm walking away just silently. I won't even say a word

[AnnieLobeseder]

Oh good lord. I'm sorry, OP, but those key rings would make you look very needy in a relationship that was struggling. I think you're doing the right thing by walking away.

[Seriouslyffs]

Good Luck giinny91!
Do think about what you'd like in a partner and don't rush into a new relationship. What are your circumstances, what are you looking for?

[Hissy]

how old are you both?

wtf are you doing posting sad songs on FB. why would you do that to your friwnds/him/etc? why inflict that crap on others?

if you need to talk about sometjing, talk about it. if a person won't listen to you, or get irritated, find someone who DOES care enough to be there for the good and the bad.

or if you're making a habit of it, then have a word with yourself. stop it and work on whatever it is that's frustrating you.

you sound as if you could be making his life a misery by going on and on, or worse hinting at your sadness and expecting him/everyone to rush and say "Aw, hun...."

you can fix your life if you want to.