I filed divorce proceedings a little over a year ago after calling time on my marriage of 15 years, took us ages to sell the house so things have rumbled on.
It's been fairly amicable STBXH now in rental or staying at his GF's and I'm in my lovely new moneypit house but.... I'm missing the DC when they are with STBXH in the week and after feeling positive and upbeat all summer it's suddenly dark and gloomy of an evening, Christmas in two homes for the DC looms and I'm feeling skint and have burst into tears the past week more than I have for ages. Nostalgia for the life I knew as an intact family unit seems to be getting in the way of rational thought.
Would love to have some of those out the other side of the divorce/split rollercoaster with positive stories of how life is better, they are happier and the DC's are doing fine etc.
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positive/encouraging thread for those newly split/nearly divorced
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Outtaideas · 17/11/2014 16:22
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