We've just invited my father in law over for Christmas (realistically Christmas Eve to 27th because of train running times etc) and he's said no!
Two years ago he came for Christmas, last year (because it was my parent's "turn" to come over) he came over and we had an early Christmas (with the bonus that we had Christmas fayres/markets/nativities to go to). He seemed to enjoy it at the time, so I'm surprised he's turned us down.
He was widowed a couple of years ago, OH is his only child - he says he's happy to spend Christmas on his own.
I'm not offended, just concerned that either we've not been welcoming enough or that perhaps he's a bit down and we should be doing something to help him.
Any ideas on what it could be?
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Itscurtainsforyou · 10/11/2014 16:18
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