My partner of 12 years has started acting really horrible. We have 2 daughters one of 8 one of 2 we both he works full time I work part time. For the last few months he has had a really bad attitude he talks nasty and swears at me then he'll sulk for days at a time. During the sulking phase he will not help with children or house work and will only give me one word answers! The last time this carried on for 5 days, I think he likes living this way as he gets out of doing any thing other than what he wants to do! Last night I was putting washing away and his drawer broke he went mental and tipped out all his clothes on to the floor then bagged loads of them up and chucked them in the bin? I asked him why he was doing that and he called me lots of names, I completely lost it and shouted back I told him he is making my life a misery and if he's not happy to go. He then said he'd stay until payday & help with the kids! which I said no I'm not living like that he either sorts it out or goes. He won't say sorry for the way he's behaved (this isn't the first time he's gone off the handle recently) as far as he's concerned me shouting back at him is the main issue?? Am I living in a different universe or is there something else going on here?
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