Right I have done it, I have asked him to leave by Friday and I don't care where he goes, I am going to sit down and tell the children today or tomorrow that me and their dad are splitting up and will try and support them as much as possible, without falling apart myself..
I am going to get the bills down as cheap as possible by phoning round today and getting just the basics of every package (phone etc).
I am going to try and sort out if I am entitled to any benefits but I have two part time jobs so I don't know?...
But this is the hard part, I am scared of him. There is evidence again that he has been terrifying our pet cat, no marks I can see but anyone who can hurt a defenseless animal is pretty scary in my eyes.
I need to get this address registered so if he goes to hurt me, the police respond quickly. I don't think this warrants me dialing 999 right now so is that the 101 number I call or the local station?
Plus I do not have the money to change my locks at all (2 doors, one external and one internal, house conversion).
Is there any way I can change them myself?! I am not moving my children from their house, its in my name (H.A property) its near their schools and its my bloody home too so I need to sit tight an hope this all blows over quickly.
He locked me out once when I went round to my friends house for a takeaway and got home at 11.30pm, if he does this again while he is here, can I call the police?
My head is swimming, sorry for such a long post and all the questions...
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Stupid100 · 01/11/2014 09:39
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