Literally don't know where to start but here goes!
Been together with dp for 4yrs have two dc's 3 and 6m. If I'm honest I should of left him 2m after we got together because he cheated and got his ex pg (she's now 3) however I didn't leave and went on to have my two babies so no regrets! Although he continued to cheat with the ex and other women. The last one I know about, being August 2013 ( I was 6w pg when I found out) and since then I don't think there has been any cheating but a host of other problems inc gambling, him going out lots, him slagging my mum off, him not getting on with dd1 (he never has) and problems with his ex!
However we have split up 3 times in the 6m since ds was born and I need to bite the bullet and stop going back! Two close friends of mine have recently split from partners and managed not to go back and I find myself being jealous! I wish I could be that strong! Obviously there situation doesn't involve kids which makes the situation harder! But a lot of people still leave and stay left so why can't i?!!!! We aren't speaking at the minute after a argument over money AGAIN! Although he does have the kids this weekend as I'm ill (we don't live together by the way! He can't support us!) but we really need to sort this and end it for good! Anyone that's left a relationship how do you stay strong because I always sucombe to the crying and begging text messages and ALWAYS believe he will change! I've tried the whole " when he's begging you back remember how you feel right now and how bad things are" to try and make me not go back but it obviously doesn't work! Sorry it's so long Tia x
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I need to pull my head out of the sand! Help me!
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mummytotwo14 · 31/10/2014 21:11
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