Dd is 18mo, and dh is struggling to connect with her. He's super hands on when he's home, gets her up in the morning, gives her breakfast, changes her bum, brushes her teeth then goes to work. When he gets home he gives her dinner, tidies up from the day, gives her a bath, does teeth, gets her ready for bed and settles her.. He's amazing, and I'd say we probably end up doing 50/50 weekdays
But at the weekends it's harder, he wants to 'do it all' himself, so I can have some time off (preg with dc2!) which is lovely, and I want them to bond as much as they can, but he doesn't really understand her cues, if she's screaming hysterically he won't think 'oh, she hasent had a drink yet today' or 'maybe she's bored as I've been doing the washing up/ cooking, il get some toys out' he just gets fustrated that she's crying and angry he doesn't know what to do
I'm not really sure what I'm asking, but is it possible for dh to pick up these cues and it become second nature for him like it is for me?
It's really getting him down, and he's starting to give up :(
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How to help dh bond with dd?
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BeanyIsPregnant · 29/07/2014 13:58
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