I have been having some real issues with my partner for quite some time now and have decided I need to leave but I don't know if I am going around it the right way.
I currently live with DP and my DD at first our relationship was great. I got with him because he was kind and considerate. We got engaged and I fell pregnant.
After I had DD I lost all self confidence and we lost all intimacy, I mention this because I imagine it probably contributed to our problems. DP is a fabulous dad bit I honestly feel like I am being bullied. He picks at every little thing that I do wrong and then laughs at me if I cry. I have lost count of the times that he has called me a silly bitch or told me to fuck off.
More recently he has thrown a show at me and grabbed me by the hair both times saying I had caused it. I know I need to get out but I feel like I am taking the cowards way.
I have applied for a house for me and my daughter and my application is currently being processed. I know I need to tell him but I what I really want to do is just leave if they accept my application.
My concerns are whether he will be able to afford our current house alone and how upset he will be.
I need to be honest with him don't i?
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Am I doing the right thing?
Bleedinheck · 25/06/2014 21:17
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