My dh had an affair I discovered back in November. It has been a difficult recovery mainly because he didn't break immediate contact with ow, as asked, but we have been to counselling, he has been very kind and loving towards me, lots of discussions about our future/plans, why he did it, wild sex etc.
But I feel like i'm still waiting for the moment that I can say, right, we're fixed, he's back for good. After 6 months, i'm hoping that's a good sign. Most websites say recovery can take 1-2 years. Any personal experience? Can things go wrong even after these milestones? Most of the threads I've read seem to suggest that if things are going to go wrong it will be in the first 6 months.
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Affair Recovery - When are you out of the 'dangerzone'?
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holdtight · 11/05/2014 10:30
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