My cousin is in an emotionally abusive marriage. The knock-on effect of this has been devastating for the wider family.
My aunt and uncle are loving, kind, generous people. They have always been very close to their children but in the last few years their relationship with my younger cousin has been deliberately, systematically and insidiously undermined and eroded. Every effort they have made to retain a loving relationship with their child has been thrown back in their faces.
They are desperate to continue being a part of my cousin's life, but their efforts are constantly rejected at the behest of my cousin's spouse. My cousin's other family relationships have also been damaged - for example with grandparents and siblings.
No members of the family have any regular contact with my cousin any longer. This is a situation that has been imposed upon them and they find the pain of it almost beyond bearing.
I am aware of many sources of support for the immediate victims of abuse but have not been able to find anything available for the 'collateral' victims, the people whose lives are indirectly damaged because they love a person who is caught up in an abusive relationship. Does anyone know if any such support exists?
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Is there any support available for the families of people in emotionally abusive relationships?
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BurningBright · 22/04/2014 14:25
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