Sorry, another mil thread. Just need a bit of advice really. Mil lives about 5 hours away, we stay in contact through ME facetiming her, emailing, sending pics etc.
Dd is coming up to 2 and we are due to have ds in a couple of months. When I was due to have dd, she text me to ask if her partner could be called grandpa, I asked dp what he thought, he said no way and that I should just ignore the message as he thought she was trying to wind me up. They had only been together 9 months at this point. They are since married and have been together around 3 years now and the grandpa thing is coming up again.
Dp says no but won't just tell her that. I don't think our dcs should call him grandpa because it doesn't fell like 'just a name'. They literally never ask how we are, never visit for more than a couple of hours despite the drive, just never show that they actually give a damn but then mil moans that she's missing out on so much!
Anyway, we facetimed them just now while dp is at work and she actually tried to make my dd call him grandpa, I just said, no that's .... But she carried on so I hung up. Stupid I know but I'm scared of her and don't want to argue in front of dd as mil gets rather nasty. I know it's dps job to sort this but what do we do? Sorry for super long post.
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Rigbyroo · 24/03/2014 17:51
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