I am 47 and met a guy 35 - he has never been married and has no children. He says he doesn't want children though envisages marriage at some stage. I have no kids and never been married - guess career and unwise choices led to to the years going by but am ok about it all and don't feel I missed out - thought it would happen - it didn't.
But I am concerned about the 12 year gap. He is not concerned in the least. Think perhaps he will change his mind about children though he repeatedly says he won't. Ironically I recently split up from a 60 year old man. The new man is fantastic - great lover, so kind, easy, lovely family nothing negative other than my concerns re the 12 year gap. He seems very serious about me. I do look older than him but probably only by 5 years and do alot of exercise and healthy diet so size 8-10 and toned so I do not feel concerned by that aspect.
Anyone have any advice for me please. Should I treat it as a fling? I do have strong feelings for him.
Thank you in advance.
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brunette123 · 23/03/2014 19:36
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