but its normal isn't it? DS is clearly starting puberty, moody, massive growth spurt, etc. We don't see much of him unless he is told to come and be with us as he has his screens in his den (a downstairs playroom) which we don't limit as long as he has done homework and any organised activities (also no screens allowed in his bedroom) and plays out a lot now the weather is improving.
I'm inclined to let him be and only insists he comes and has family meals with us and also comes with us when we go out as a family at the weekend. However DH continually makes a big issue of it and goes one and on about "how we never see you anymore DS", "thought we would have more time before you turned into a moody teenager", etc. DS hates it and tbh it would have wound me up as a 12 yo also.
I feel like I need to speak to DH and tell him to lay off with the histrionics, it will only drive DS away further. But I don't know if this is the right thing to do? I was brought up by my DF after my DM died when I was 11 so feel like I don't have experience of normal family dynamics for this one. My DF never bugged me to spend time with him when I didn't want to and he was a widower with an only child.
I was going to put this in preteen topic
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Flyonthewindscreen · 18/03/2014 15:37
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