so….life is good…certainly not all centred around BF, but we enjoy our time together. It's been 18 months and rather bumpy as he's a moody man, prone to jealousy and a massive flirt. Also anger issues. Plus he's a bit of a freeloader (I have more money than him) But on the whole we have a great time together…but there are things I really don't like about him and I know he's not the one for me.
We have lots of plans - holidays etc but wondering whether to cut my losses and miss out on the fun/company/sex. I know he has a wandering eye…but I don't care enough to let that bother me anymore. He declares love all the time and talks of the distant future but I think he's full of shit.
I expect you'll all say run for the hills, which I probably should, but my life will be a lot emptier without him. He makes me laugh and enhances my life, but as I said, lots of red flags.
Very confused…I'm 50 so meeting guys not so easy. Any advise would be appreciated because I have no idea what I should do. Can live without him for sure, but he will leave a hole in my laugh - we have such a giggly laughing relationship together. UGH….men!
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Lovely life but BF not all that..?
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fizzfiend · 17/03/2014 00:13
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