He is lovely and we can see each other a few times a week when ds is not with me. I am really having fun! (which is a bloody miracle considering what I have been through the last few years)
Problem is, he has a big opportunity to go and work on the other side of the world, starting this summer.
It is very early days but he is made it clear he is keen on me, wants children, even someone else's etc etc. I like him a lot but am definately protecting myself from falling for him (abusive exh).
Ds is 3 and not the easiest child. New Guy has no idea of the reality of children and I like just being able to have fun with him, have a break from single parenthood for a few hours.
He has mentioned he could not go on his trip. But can I expect him to make that decision without having any idea about what ds / family time is like?
Its not up to me obviously to decide if he goes. But I feel like of course, he likes the me who turns up in his bed every few days but the me who had to abandon dinner last night to deal with ds' poo problems - not so attractive!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Lone parent and I've met someone. I want to keep him in a childfree bubble but...
14 replies
NotaDragonsEgg · 09/03/2014 08:25
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.