Hopefully the title is self explanatory.
As an adult, how do you 'come out' without having to formally do so? I've always been in relationships with men, but am bisexual. I didn't realise this until shortly before my last LTR (so quite a few years ago) and had hoped, as we all do, that things would last 'forever' and that it was therefore irrelevant, anyway.
People don't need to know. I don't need to tell family- they'll get the message if I bring a woman home or have a relationship with a woman. But I feel like it's extra hard meeting someone when no one knows. If that makes sense. On the other hand I feel like making the effort to properly 'tell' people is making a big thing out of nothing and a bit insulting, too.
Hope this all makes sense :(
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"Coming Out" without "Coming Out"
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likethedianarosssong · 25/02/2014 21:03
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