This will seem minor in comparison to some other threads I think but please could I have some feedback. I have aspergers so can't always read things or be sure of my choices when it comes to relationships. I would really like an opinion so I can stop mulling over this.
I have been chatting to a man I used to work with through text and phone. We have a lot in common and were meant to meet up soon. It meant waiting a few weeks because I am a lone parent without many babysitters. He said he really liked me, was glad we were back in touch and was looking forward to meeting up.
The other night he said he didn't think there was any point talking anymore. "Coincidentally" this coincided with me finding out my dc wouldn't be going to regular childcare until the next academic year so wouldn't be free every weekday. He said it was nothing to do with that but then went on to complain that I wouldn't bring my dc along to meet up even casually just so we could at least hang out.
I won't keep rambling but basically, I did the right thing not taking my dc along didn't I? Plus, a nice person wouldn't pressure me to do that or put pressure on me to try and get the regular childcare now instead of next year just so I was free more for him? I feel like he dressed it up as really wanting to see me and wanting to take me out but really it was just about him him him and what he wanted.
I think being lonely really clouded my opinion and I'm glad I didn't let it change my behaviour or views with regard to dc meeting potential partners. But I haven't missed out here anyway have I, because he wasn't a nice person?
Sorry for the ramble. It's helped writing it down actually.
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Miffyinthesnow · 19/02/2014 12:42
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