DH has an outdoors hobby. He trains twice a week for a couple of hours each time. He also goes away and does his hobby for a week at least once a year. We have a 2.7 yr old DS. I completely resent him having this time to do whatever he wants. I work evening and Saturday so do most of the childcare and housework. I don't really have a hobby outside of mn and reading. I'm not really sure what I'd do if I had any real leisure time. This has been an on going issue for several years and I just don't know what to do anymore. DH days he needs his hobby to keep him sane and it's a major part of him. I'm not sure if I resent the time away or the fact I don't have a hobby that engrosses me. We've just had another row about him booking a hobby holiday with a mate. I hate either being left home on my own or left to wonder around wherever with DS. There must be some middle ground where we're both happy but I can't see it. I'm almost at the point of saying fuck it and throwing in the towel. But I do love him and he would be devastated to be apart from DS.
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