Hi
I've been on mn for about a year, I'm not well known, but I wonder if anyone can help.
I've a nearly 18 month old DC. My DP and I have been together 5 years. He's 12 years older than me. We've had a very tough 18 months since DC born. We have sold a house and we are still in temporary house waiting to buy together.
I'm having CBT for the past 6 months. For anxiety and probably a bit of PND. But I have had lots of CBT in the past. I'm quite sensitive, sometimes have low self esteem periods, I can get cross quickly, but with CBT I'm working on all of this.
There has been pastproblems in relationship but my DP has done his share in working on his bit and we have a great future ahead of us. The only problem is I have days where I think all day, my brain is taken over with thoughts that I don't love him, don't want to be with him... Then other days where I love him and I grin to myself at how I've got a lovely fella.
We've had issues with sex and it's now become a bit awkward. But we've both said its awkward and we both want to work on it. One reason we had issue with sex is that I was on ADs and they killed my sex drive.
Basically I just want to know could I be having these doubts due to anxiety issues? If I decided the doubts were anxiety, left him, in future started another relationship and then had these anxious thoughts?
I think I feel like as we've had major issues in past and still sex issues as a result that 'the grass is always greener'. But is the grass greener, are other people having doubts, or are these doubts because I question everything, and a reaction to a tough period between us.
I hope I've explained it properly and thank you for any replies
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UnionofMultitaskers · 12/02/2014 20:52
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