My dh has a pattern of lying. Nothing that would be a deal breaker, but now I have got so used to it I'm insure what is acceptable.
Does being lied to effect your self esteem. I'm starting to doubt my own feelings. Apart from the lies dh is kind and loving. I find it so difficult to distinguish between the loving thoughtful dh and the dh who lies to me. He lies about money, chatting to girls and anything he thinks will cause any upset or confrontation. The effect of the lies are starting to make me lose my mind. I'm unsure of what the truth is anymore.
Can you learn to accept a liar so that my family are not split up? Dh accepts he lies, but says that he tries to stop and is a good dh in other areas and that should count for something. I feel lost and I think my esteem is going. Why?
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What happens when we are lied to?
Fourandcounting · 10/02/2014 21:04
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