Ive been in an on / off relationship for the last few years. Weve broken up 3 times now, the third time fairly recently. Its always him that breaks up with me and always by text, which makes me feel like shit. I dont chase him and eventually Ill hear from him again and we reconcile.
I know I need to move on from this as its caused a lot of upset in my life. But its hard as I do genuinely love him.
The times weve been together he tells me he loves me, so it always comes as a bit of a surprise when he ends it. This last time was because he said his feelings had changed, this only a week after telling me he loved me.
Im quite upset at the moment and keep going over everything in my head, constantly trying to reconcile why he does this?
Ive gone no contact for the last couple of weeks, but its hard as I feel that maybe theres something I could do to work things out with him.
I know how mad I must sound.
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bogroll · 10/02/2014 11:06
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