Hello all
I wonder if someone could give me some advice. I'm 34, two teenage kids, last long term relationship ended over 2 years ago (not my kids father). I've been dating a man for a month. He's very nice, just what I've been looking for really. And although there was chemistry at first, it seems to have worn off. I don't miss him when I don't see him, I'm not excited to see him anymore, I'm not feeling much attraction (sometimes I do, most of the time I don't).
I've had relationships before and miss the intense feelings at the beginning. But I'm not sure if this means I'm just not into him, or holding back in some way? I've dating enough men over the last few years and the same thing happens every time, or if it doesn't it's because we didn't get past 2 dates because there was no attraction there to begin with.
I'm feeling like I really want to end this. I really love my life, but it does get lonely, I really want someone to share it with but I can't seem to get past these feelings. It's like the scene from Jerry Mcguire... If I can't make it with this guy, I can't make it with anyone. Should I give it more time? He wants to spend next weekend with me and I'm not looking forward to it at all.
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Scaryfeet · 10/02/2014 00:31
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