I'll try not to drip feed or ramble, I don't suppose it's much out of the ordinary but I need help.
Dh have been together 7 years, married little over three months.
We have a 2 year old. Who is the light of both of our lives.
previous to dc, we rarely argued. Having a demanding dd obviously changes the dynamics and dh is a wonderful father. I'd like him to change more nappies! but overall is great. He also pulls his weight around the house. I suck at housework and o am sure this is frustrating for him.
Our sex life is sporadic - sex is great but it comes and go in clusters when toddlers sleeping and my sex drive (tiredness) allows. It would be fair to say we both wish it were more regular but him more than me.
We bicker alot, and it has probably gotten worse this year as I have suffered depression and anxiety for the first time. Its been hard for me.. difficult for him to understand. .but were trying to get through it.
When ever we don't have dd, we instantly fall into our old selves. We laugh and joke and thoroughly enjoy each other. I don't know why, but I've noticed it and so has he. We've only been childless a handful of times. is this normal?
anyways. As I say, we are newly married. And twinned with my anxiety I am just terrified that we aren't going to make it. I'm so tired if arguing and bickering and the digs we make at one another. We don't scream or shout..but it feels like a horrible routine.
I miss him. I miss us.
How can we make our relationship better? is this normal or?
Sometimes I see other couples who seem blissfully happy families and I wonder why ours seems stressful.
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Sourpickles · 07/02/2014 08:50
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