Hi im really struggling with my OH's ex. I don't want to be involved in her life but we live in the same town and our kids go to the same school (tried to avoid that but couldn't - I should say that they are not my husbands' kids - she is now married to someone else with their own kids) and now she is becoming friends with some of my closest mates through school. I find that really uncomfortable - I just don't feel the need to be pally with her and I wish she'd be a bit more sensitive to the dynamic and keep to her own circle if that makes sense. I feel awkward and childish tho asking my friends to please not get involved and I havent done. Who am I to ask anyone that? Am i being unreasonable not wanting to mix with her - I just feel as if life is complicated enough already!
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