Background story exp separated 7 years one ds 10 exp was in music business and in recovery from drugs clean 12 years and is Asian. Was very ea which escalated when ds born I have always had my own business and property that I have worked for on my own which he has resented even though now he has a property portfolio of his own and to be honest has always resented me which is becoming more apparent. Have always tried to remain friendly have allowed access to him in my ds and my home as he lives 100 miles away, when we separated I asked for 50 percent of school fees nothing else and six years on money is always late or not atall he has spent Christmas here and all was fine until he got resentful about taking ds back to London with him as I was away for new year with dp. My post is really asking for strength in this situation I need to man up apply for child maintenance through correct channels I see CSa is not taking any new cases not let him into our home to stay and the other problem is that he is so negative about my new partner who I have been with for 3 years who has not met ds as distance is a factor and also ex p being abusive about dp. I feal very sad about the situation my son is a lovely boy who I fear is being torn in two how do I sort this out sorry if long x
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