I've posted on here a few times about my Mum. She can be difficult and I think she does have some narrassistic traits.
I was supposed to be hosting Christmas dinner this year and my sister and her family were supposed to be coming. This is now not going to happen as there is a serious illness in my sister's in laws family and they are needed there.
I didn't know that my sister hadnt told my mum and have just mentioned this to her. Christmas dinner is still on and my in laws are going to join us. My mum is really angry about this. She was very short with me and stormed out my house which upset my DCs.
I have such a feeling of dred now. I feel like I have dropped my sister in it and my mum was furious with me because I tried to point out that the situation wasn't really my fault. My mum is angry because I have adopted "an attitude".
I am now dreding Christmas Day. I don't particularly get on with my in laws (although we can rub along ok), my mum will be in a total mood, and my poor poor husband will be trying to smooth everything over and cook for us all.
In the interest of being complete I'm pregnant and have had a few complications so far and need to take things fairly easy.
So how to proceed please? In the short term should I contact my mum to see us she got hone ok? And any advice about how to handle Christmas Day?
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Fight with mother. What to do?
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mermaid101 · 07/12/2013 19:40
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