Molly- Christmas must be looking a bit brighter in your house
next on the list is a house- I've one to view tomorrow with my darling mother. quite excited at the prospect as I canny face exH coming and going when he pleases from here ATM ( staying at his mums-only for a month)
Great feeling, isn't it? FWIW you don't have to let the ex come and go as he pleases. If you tell him to stay away and he refuses to listen there are ways around it, especially if there's a divorce underway. Have you taken legal advice?