Hi name changed etc
I'm with a new partner, who is lovely, in his 40's. Been seeing each other for 3 months. Last night in bed, (we cuddle and kiss lots- no sex yet.) we decided to take things further, I went to hold him but there was nothing, no erection no nothing until he said 'x nothing's happening' to be honest I was gutted and embarrassed this has never happened before, apart from with him. When we're kissing he gets an erection.
He'd mentioned before that he suffers from premature ejaculation and always has, in previous relationships the women said it didn't matter?!but it matters to me, how do I help him? He said he went to see the GP recently who wasn't very helpful and mentioned relate, he's researched on the net and bought a self help book.
What do I do, I want to talk further to him, but does it just make the whole thing worse? Ie cause more embarrassment? I know this is TMI but he's not very big- say 4" when fully erect. Not had sex for 3 years previously.
Any suggestions?
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Premature ejaculation and no erection?
Unsurehelpmeplease · 02/11/2013 10:15
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