So, long history of a shit relationship lots of physical and emotional abuse from him to me. I was trying to build up strength to escape. Very nasty fight with him throwing stuff and calling me a shithead etc. Anyway after that he decides he wants a divorce. Am pissed off as again the power has been taken from me and I wanted to hit him with it not other way around. I have much more evidence against him too.
But even though it is best to not be together it still hurts somuch. He has completely destroyed my self esteem and confidence through all the abuse and I was getting to my end point so I should feel relieved but I dont.
Thats nearly 20 years we have been together met at 18 and have never known anything else
Have gone into a weird numb shock state and dont know what to do with myself.
He is moving out on tuesday and is saying he will still pay mortgage for me and kids which I never thought he wd do so willingly as he is usually so downright nasty manipulative and unreasonable
It really hurts which I didnt think it would.
Am all shaky and feel a bit sick
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he has said he wants a divorce. its what I want too but it bloody hurts
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yummytummy · 12/10/2013 18:28
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