hi new here!
I need some advice on something that has affected me badly.
I am pregnant (8 weeks gone) and a few nights ago whilst on my OH's facebook doing something for him I found a message sent by his ex-girlfriend. He said he didn't know it was there and then deleted it after I read it but basically she was saying about how she was in a place that he used to take her (which he now takes me!) and how she started thinking about him. She was sorry for how she treated him and she didn't want him to respond as she felt good to email him and she felt humbled by saying sorry then she signed it off with a x.
of course being the emotional wreck I am, I burst into tears as I know she was the love of his life at one point, they split 6 years ago so why on earth would she be emailing him now? we have occasionally seen her when we have been in our local shops etc and he always does a double take with her but I don't think he notices that he does.
Now I can't stop thinking about the fact that he took her to this place he always takes me (a beautiful river town) and I keep wondering why she would write after all this time. Was she hoping he would respond and it would ignite something again? was she trying to get closure?
he swears he didn't know the message was there, that he can't remember taking her to this place and that it wasn't that serious but they dated for a year and at one point she lived with him and they talked about having children.
Please help even if it's to tell me i'm an emotional, hormonal bonkers woman or to say what you think on why she did this? I want all opinions please
thanks
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sillybilly007 · 03/09/2013 09:43
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