I've been having problems in my relationship since the birth of my lo ten months ago, a friend of both of ours knows about the problems and said she'd noticed that we did not consider money as both of ours. My money's mine and his money's his. I don't earn at the moment so stopped paying him rent. We split as much we could in past but he pays for a lot more now as i dont work and as I get small amount of tax credits which seems to go on my very few direct debits. (Car insurance, phone)
I don't see this as problem as long as its quite equal and he's not spending loads on himself, but she seems to think it shows we don't work together.
Is this an example of deeper issues in a relationship, not willing to share and 'a yours and Mine' situation?
She has a lot more money than us in her relationship, where as I feel we don't have much so we must not have much spare after living costs so theres nothing to split after his direct debits have gone out bank. But then I'm not really sure what dp earns per month as he's self employed.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Money in relationships
20 replies
Space2000 · 23/07/2013 23:24
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.