Here goes...
In an emotionally abusive relationship. ~DH announced he wanted to leave me on mother's day. Moved out a week later. 1 week after that shagged a girl from his office. Has apologized for hurting me but not for what he has done. Wants a divorce. 7 weeks on and although over the devastated and panicking stage I am not where I want to be.
Why the hell am I struggling to let go???
I am hanging onto this "perfect family" fantasy.... we often were the perfect family, but then he would explode about something or other and everything would come tumbling down.
I know denial is a form of self preservation when you are in an abusive relationship but this is ridiculous.
He still gets to me, and I still think maybe oneday we can work things out because he has finally sought medical help and is on mood stabilizers and going to therapy.
I hate that I am feeling this way instead of thinking "fuck you you fucking fuck!!!"
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EA - why can't I let go?
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QwertyQueen · 18/07/2013 14:39
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