I am 24 and have been married for 6 years. I have a seven year old son.
My marriage started to go downhill when my husband joined the gym five years ago money went on steroids and his food it didn't matter about me and my son. He expected my to cook and clean and still till I left he did, even though I was ill and I am awaiting an operation. He would throw and break my things during rows and often threatened to kill me if I ever left him. He would put my off before job interviews telling me if it failed it was my fault if we lost our home. I couldn't take it anymore and on our 6 year anniversary on the 19th of may I had an MRI and he wouldn't attend, that was the final straw. I was so scared to tell him I was going to leave as I was feared his threats to kill were real so on the 23rd I went to a womens refuge with my son and have recently moved back in with my parents. I no longer love my husband and even though he says he's changed and keeps begging me not to divorce him (I am meeting with my solicitor tommorow) I know I need to be free of him. I know I am doing the right thing as I deserve someone who would never treat me the way he has treated me. He keeps telling me I have wrecked the family and that is one thing that plays on my mind at night.
I suppose I could do with someone to talk to, anyone who has gone through similiar situations.
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