Hi I have posted one thread before and been reading EA thread but not had courage to join. Finding it very hard today. Managed to get up the courage last week to talk to dh. Told him I was scared of him, I cant express myself properly and my feelings for him have gone. Said loads not very well but he got the gist.He thinks I am depressed (which I am) and I need to get antidepressants because then I will see things clearly and realise I do love him (NO). We have been through hell over last 6 years with ill health. He fully accepts it is his fault for treating me badly but wants to "fight" to keep this relationship. He thinks counselling would help but I know he looks down his nose at counsellors so think he is just trying to appease me. At the end of our talk I felt better. He has been trying. Helping around house and with school pick ups. Then yestersay said that I am not trying and if we divorce it will be all on my head. Started talking about the consequences of divorce in an aggressive manner. I couldnt get my point across which is Always the case. I feel tryng to step forward then going backwards. He now wants to book holiday today. i dont want to but dont know if i am strong enough to make a stand. He is no manipulative twists and turns everything. I dont know what to do.
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