My boyfriend and I are both in our early twenties and have always lived together since we met when sharing a house at uni. Before I met him I had had several partners but he was a virgin. I've always enjoyed sex before and had a very high sex drive. However we just never have sex.
It seems that neither of us is particularly interested and we can easily go a month or two without even noticing we haven't done it.
The main reasons are that we have completely different sleeping patterns and often go to bed at different times and we're both very often too tired.
I can't help feeling there's something fundamentally wrong in our relationship as this isn't normal.
At the beginning we were often put off having sex regularly as his penis would swell up after sex and get really sore. He doesn't have that problem anymore but nothing has changed. I know I just have to bite the bullet and make an effort to do it more and it'll get easier but just wondering if anyone had any tips?
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FizzyPink · 21/05/2013 02:10
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