I am 4 months pregnant and Partner and myself have been at each others throats for a while now, our relationship has became stuck in a rut... Stuck in argument mode with no where to turn. I have dealt with trust issues from past relationships and I feel I have came a long way within our relationship, just one of our many arguments at the weekend were how my partner went out with friends for drinks and partying on Friday night. He lied at which club he was at, I only found this out late Saturday night due to pictures of the club that he was really at being put on Facebook. I seen this and asked him again, he denied it, I flipped out, he didn't apologise till morning.
He lies about silly things regularly. And for me lying is the worst thing to do no matter how small or how big, a lie is a lie! Sometimes in a way I see he does it because he may think I would be annoyed but I feel lying is worse. Anyway I am touchy at the moment, we both know I have not always been like this. I'm very hormonal and find it difficult to channel my emotions.
There's always something were arguing about, and now he says he's not coming back and I can't help but cry and cry and cry. I'm completely heart broken and I don't know what to do. I have a child from a previous relationship, I'm pregnant and single again at 22 :( I have issues of being alone and I don't know how to deal with them...
I just feel like he has given up so easily, and I am left holding the baby again. He at first didn't want the baby, but I am against abortion, I said to him if he has a problem accepting that and dealing with it then leave, but if he is willing to step up then stay... He decided to stay - now leaving me on my own.
I don't know what to do or where to turn. How do I, if we can agree, make it better, I think our baby deserves better. I think our baby deserves us working out our differences but I can't figure out how to do it. At the minute he is not interested. And has asked me to stop contacting him for a few days, dragging it on..
I don't want to be judged I just want some support, words of advice, etc....
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Cakeisyummy · 13/05/2013 13:56
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