We split up for a bit because life was pretty shit and we were at breaking point with each other.
Recently got back together and I thought we were making progress.
His mobile account is on the same account as mine, in my name. I get the emails through to say how much the bill will be each month. His was higher than normal so checked online to see if there had been a mistake and I found 2 txts to a sex line and one phone conversation.
I feel really betrayed by this and hurt. It feels like he has cheated even though he physically hasn't.
There is a history of this. A long time ago I found him doing similar.
I don't know how to talk him about it. I looked at his bill just to check costs but I think now he will feel I was snooping if I tell him that.
Whats the general opinion on phone sex lines? Is it considered cheating or something most people tolerate? I'm not sure I can tbh. I feel slightly sick, its been bugging me all night - hence not sleeping and being awake this early on a Sunday.
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Recently got back together with dh. Found out he has been using sex phone lines. How would you feel about this?
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Feelbetrayed · 12/05/2013 06:29
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