Partner is almost 42 and he's gone away to a neighbouring city to "see a band" involving a stay over in a travel lodge with his 26 year old mate.
DP has a habit of trying to act a lot younger than he is too fit in with the "lads" at work. Last year he went away to a festival "with a mate" who was only 22 and ended up "partying" with 18 and 19 year old girls. He doesn't see the problem.
Now he told me tonight was just to see a band and have a few drinks. They got there for 5pm and started drinking straight away. I started receiving drunken texts off him about 6pm - can you believe he text me asking:
"have you got any single fit nurse mates for my mate?" how old are we again, 12?
Anyway his mate added me to facebook and then sent me a message saying that DP wouldn't stop going on about me - obviously drunk, the message barely made sense. I'm wondering if DP told him to send it. This bloke then starts posting facebook statuses on his wall about being pissed up in leeds, party in leeds, best place to go to pull in leeds, we're so drunk and having a blast kinda thing. DP sent me a message about half an hour ago saying "do you love me?" and I replied "of course I do, do you love me?" and I've received no reply.
I don't trust him. He wants to fit in so badly with these lads I think he'd do anything to show that "he's da man". He has form for internet flirting and porn too. I'm cutting myself up here wondering what he's up to. normal 42 year olds don't act like this do they?
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Wish I was ok with him going away for the night but I just don't trust him
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AAdamsA · 10/05/2013 20:26
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