After sex, post coital, DH decides to start a conversation about sex "post marriage." He says he was so used to seducing before and getting a prize at the end of it and that the game of seducing was almost better than the sex itself (with these random women) it's now weird that we have lived together some years and he doesn't have to seduce me, I'm just there all the time.
This all comes about because I complained to him last month that we weren't having sex anymore. He barely wanted sex with me despite me being available for it most of the time. We had a big argument with him saying he's always tired/too busy etc. but now he's stepped up his game and it's got better.
But this thing has stuck in my head. Don't you think it's a weird thing to say?? Once you get married, the chase stops. Excuse me for now living here and no longer being the elusive piece of meat for the tiger to catch.
But then he didn't say he was missing it, he just said he found it confusing. Should I be pandering to this? Playing hard to get?? Letting other men look at me? Or should I just let it go? He is obviously some way dealing with it in his own head.
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DH announced last night that he likes the thrill of the chase
bunsmum · 28/04/2013 07:32
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