Hi
I am posting this after a big row so please go easy. I am almost divorced with two teenagers and my parents still have the power to make me feel like shit.
I called in this morning as I asked them if they could lend me some money towards taking my kids away in summer (first time abroad in four years) I really want to take them as oldest will be away with friends after A levels so last chance really.
Cue loads of ranting on about not being good with money (admittedly not my strongest suit) oh and I do fifty hours a week to keep us afloat. Ex doctor who pays minimum.
Sister is clearly golden child who never puts a foot wrong (in their eyes) They also have been no support through difficult divorce only moaning how long it takes.
They are now starting to be this critical with my kids as they were with me. Example daughter gotr ABC in exams in Jan and reaction was what went wrong there?
I feel that they offer to pay for stuff as it gives them a form of control (they are fairly well off) rather than wanting to help genuinely. Always been very hands off with kids they have stayed there about twice in 16 years and they live five minutes away. Lots more involvement with sisters child tho.
Not sure what I am asking really more a bit of a rant. Have told them don't want money as
"Help" price just too high
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mrscoleridge · 19/04/2013 19:01
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