H left 5 weeks ago to "find himself" but told kids he needed to be on his own etc and that he didn't love me anymore. Turns out he was having an affair and is now living with OW down the road. She has 2 kids who she and her husband seem to be fighting over. We have a 6 yo DS and 3 yo DD. DS has taken H leaving really badly. He has no friends with seperated parents and seems almost depressed. Last night he asked not to have Dad visit for a few weeks as it made him "too sad". The kids have no idea about the OW or the kids but my H is now keen to get them all to meet as he feels this will help our children to deal with him not being here? I feel its way too early and that I want them a bit more ok with him being gone before they suddenly realise he now has another 2 kids. I think DD will handle it ok as she is very friendly and will enjoy having other girls to play with etc but DS is very introvert, a real worrier, with aspergers traits and I am so worried about how he will feel/react/deal with this extra rejection of him
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