I split with p 2 months ago after over 10 years together and 2 lovely dc.
We split because of his drinking, spending, selfishness, lack of interest in being a proper family and no sex for 18months (due to hs antidepressants). These have been recurrent problems to some degree or another over a few years.
Since we split he has behaved like a sensible, rational person and as stopped drinking. He has been to see a counsellor. Last night he texted me and asked if we could talk, that he felt he had a lot to say. Since we split he has repeatedly apologised for his behaviour.
I agreed today to talk to him about why we had splitvetc but said that I would only do so with a counsellor there.
I am really struggling, I don't want him to think tat we are getting back together but I would like to hear his take on things and put my pov across without it descending into an arguement.
I am now worrying about hw it will turn out.
Any advice?
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Ikeameatballs · 12/04/2013 22:38
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