Hi i really want some advice as dont want to get my family or friends involved at the moment. My husband and i have been married for nearly 10 years. About 6 months ago i found out he had joined a dating site and had been texting other women on it. I suspected something was going on and i didn't want to but i did check his phone, and then found messages. We had a huge arguement and i told him that if it happened again it was over. He said that there was something wrong with me for checking his phone and said some hurtful things. He did apologise after and said he had the problem not me. Anyway about a month ago he went out with friends and was out quite late. He woke me up coming in and i dont know why but i ended up checking his phone again. There was a womans number on it and he had texted saying nice to have met you tonight and a smiley face next to it. I texted the woman asking why is your number in my husbands phone, and she said she didn't know him. She only had his number as her friend was interested in his friend. He insisted that he told her that he was married and he did nothing wrong. I don't know what to do?
I have since found a womans number on a piece of paper in his wallet and pictures of women in their undies on his email account. I have no confidence in myself anymore and what hurts is the women are not even pretty, so whats wrong with me??
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Carebear18 · 11/04/2013 14:23
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