I broke up with ex two years ago. He was abusive and the last five years together were hell. We have two children.
I have moved on and the kids were happy. Their dad looked after them a couple of days a week/weekend but I always had to pay babysitting money for this. They rarely stayed over with him as he didn't have space for them at his place.
So last week he mentions on facebook that he has met someone. This week she has moved in and the kids have met her. They think she is cool and so much more fun than me.
The ex now wants the kids to stay nights and I am really worried he will try to take them off me. He seems to be under the impression that my partner (who has a good job) would have to pay maintenance and he (the ex) has already told our boys that I only have them for the money and that i don't love them at all.
Not too sure what I'm trying to say but would like some advice on how to deal with this please. The kids are 12 and 13
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littlemissangrypants · 10/04/2013 18:33
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