Ok i need some advice people please.
Back ground.
My sons farther and i where we not together when i conceived And he didnt tell his family that he was a dad until i made him when DS was 12 weeks old. Since then I tried to build a relationship with his mother for my DS ,
It started off fine she seemed lovely and would come down to see DS about once a week, then when DS was about 6 months old it all got abit strange and she started saying she wanted grandparents rights ( at this time a family member from that side of the family got told he had cancer ) my sons dad told me she was acting out for attention.
So trying to keep this brief, we built a good relationship i told her she can see DS when ever she wants to just let me no so i can change things about if i have plans so she can see him,she doesnt do this , over easter she txt saying she was down and wanted to see DS i said ok im at my mums having lunch come here an then we can make a plan and go somewhere ( she has been to my mums before for a cup and tea and things) my died an she never came, turned out she had sat in the car outside for ten mins and left, then slagged me off to the whole family and didnt talk to me for three weeks.
Over the weekend she said she will come down one day this week and we will take DS to the park , i had a txt yday morning saying do i fancy it today, i thought this isnt fair i need at least a few hours warning as i was already out with plans to have lunch and take DS to play area, i txt back saying i was out didnt no she was coming today , but will be free in the afternoon or she can come and meet us if she wants to and i had a reply saying we did plan for today and see me another time maybe.... She then called my sons dad giving him hell saying she wants to see DS in his five hour contact ( i think this is unfair as its the only time my son sees his dad and she no she can see him whenever )
She is now ignoring my calls and put a status on FB saying she has had a disavow moment and is going to smile and move on with her life ( i dont no what that means )
If you have read all that thank you so much, i just dont no what to do , i like her and i want my DS to know his nana , but she seems to see her bum fast and then she misses out,
What do u make of this, what shall i do ?? And im scared with her wanting nana rights before please help.
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MIL kicking off please help im sorry its long :(
SummersComing1111 · 10/04/2013 07:48
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