H keft 10 mths ago saying that our relationship had been a big mistake. He had effectively spent our short marriage trying to find someone else and aftera few false starts seems to have found someone. I really ieved we were right for each other and would be together for ever. So finding out the whole thing was a sham has destroyed my happy memories and confidence in my ability to judge people's characters has also gone.
People keep telling me that the right man will come along. I know they are trying to be kind but it's getting me down. For a start I have no interest in making the same mistake again and at 50 with a young child I'm not exactly top of the desirability charts. It's getting to the point where I will say something I will regret which is unfair when people are trying to be nice. If I just laugh it off or say I'm not going down that road again I just get the"you don't really mean it" sad look.
How do other people deal with this?
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Getting so tired of people telling me that a good man will find a way into ny life
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duffybeatmetoit · 02/04/2013 00:12
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